It never fails that every day that I have off of work the weather is shit but when I have to spend the entire day inside a warehouse the weather channel is calling for “abundant sunshine.” Fuck you sunshine
I guess I’m mad because they could use this opportunity to further trans education, but they’re not. In fact by continuing to misgender etc they only perpetuating the ignorance and it’s hurtful to the community. They’re completely missing this golden opportunity and it’s upsetting.
So my parents are watching Dallas Byers Club and like….
Dunno if they’re just accurately portraying that time period or what. But if you take out the offensive homophobic, transphobic, and misogynistic language it’s kind of a good movie with a compelling story.
I just wish they (actors producers etc) would make a disclaimer about the proper way to treat trans people but honestly I don’t think they have a fucking clue because they (Leto etc) keeps going around making these speeches misgendering and acting like he’s god’s gift to the community and seriously not making any effort to being educated on the topic
Yes, Leto’s performance is pretty amazing purely from a theatrical standpoint but that doesn’t mean he can speak for the “Rayons of the world,” which honestly is kind of an offensive statement because it dehumanizes the trans community.
Dunno though man, because it is pretty cool that they even did this movie with an A-list cast etc, but it doesn’t mean they can continue to misgender etc.
Okay but y’all don’t understand I am so unreasonably excited about my RodeoHs. I got the notification that they’ve been shipped and Omg this is a real thing that is happening and I want to tell everyone because I am just that excited but I can’t. Because it’s for sex toy. Total conundrum.
so i’m about to get my yearly bonus + pay raise + promotion at work so i thought i’d spoil myself by purchasing my first pair of RodeoHs. really excited because i never buy sexy things??? and just purchasing it has be all ~excited with anticipation and oh my goodness.
One is now a Chick-fil-a supporting republican, one just married a traditionalist Catholic, and the other I just found out listens to Rush Limbaugh.
This is such an odd turn of events because none of them were like this in all the time that I knew them, especially while we dated. Clearly they’re better judgments are failing without my superior influence.
But I guess in all fairness, they problem didn’t expect their ex girlfriend to be gay, so
I wish there were actual options in gender neutral pronouns. I know that “ze” and “zir” are trying to be a thing, but I wish it was more accepted by the community, rather than “they” and “them.” I have a difficult time processing “them” to be singular rather than plural, and it’s confusing in a group setting.
“Racism is not in your intent. Your intent is immaterial in how racist your actions are. This isn’t about you BEING a racist. It’s about you DOING A THING that is racist. Your intent doesn’t change it. Your ignorance of its meaning doesn’t change it. It’s got nothing to do with you as a person and everything to do with the meaning of your action in the context of sociocultural history.”—
If you’re masculine-of-center with a not-so-masculine body type, then you’re very aware that pants that fit and flatter do not come from the mens department. Yes, you and I know it all too well, friend. We’ve tasted our own tears in many a dressing room. We’ve learned to stop getting excited when our best friend’s ex’s cousin’s sister swears up and down that this one rare and expensive brand is a…
so it occurred to me that a lot of queer girls have buzzed hairs and while i wonder if i really want to fit that mold i realize that the internet is not my southern place of living and that people around here don’t assume i’m queer just because my hairs are buzzed in fact this cute black boy at work asked me out and it blew his mind that i had a girlfriend so.
imma keep doing what i been doing because i like my hairs off of my ears AND because it’s fun as hell to buzz your own hairs.
So my ex boyfriend is getting married on Saturday and all I can feel is ????? He used to be my best friend and I did love him even though I wasn’t in love with him and I know I broke his heart but he stopped talking to me when he was a counsellor at that summer camp and met that girl and started dating and the only fight they ever had was that he didn’t ask her soon enough to be his wife even though they’d only known each other for four months. I do still love him but I can’t help but hate the person that camp turned him into like he used to be so kind and compassionate and funny and sarcastic and all over the place wild and now he ignores the people he used to hang with and hasn’t spoken to me since that camp two and a half years ago and he’s very self righteous and ever so Christian and thinks gay people are “called to be celibate” because of their “innate sin” and that makes me want to punch him for saying this because he used to love me and used to be such a good guy and my heart hurts.